I know I've already written once, but it still has not sunk in for me. While it's been three and a half years since I last saw Ray and his family, he had a profound impact on me, just like my other friend, Martin Bartek. After the FGT rally where we handed over Ray's Matech GT1 car, we were working hard to try and sell the business and raise sponsorship. Please don't under estimate the word 'hard'...when I meet some of you again I'll tell you the full story of what was going on. Anyway, Ray, being Ray, said he'd like to help out as much as he can and arrange for us to meet up with some of his friends and business associates who might be interested.
Martin and I were both due to leave the USA for Europe that afternoon. With Mitch Clark's (Ray's good friend and also at the rally) help, our flights miraculously got forgotten about and rearranged for an open ticket home - don't quite know how that works lol. Then Ray said let's go back to my place and figure this out. Me being new to the USA had no idea what this actually meant or where his place was. So we drive through the private gates at the airport, I literally leave the keys to the rental car on the passenger seat and leave. Martin and I met Chip at Ray's jet and together we all took off heading for some place called Midland in Texas. Er ok. Chip was his usual (now that I know him better) self, and started the cocktails as we were going down the runway. I was sat in a private jet, thinking I'm a rock star, and Ray was busy talking with Martin about what can be done.
Ray's wisdom, kindness and generosity were boundless. Martin and I stayed at Ray and Mitch's houses, and we were instantly welcomed as part of the family. I was pretty much speechless the whole time, as I was so overwhelmed by their kindness. Next morning, on the Sunday, we all flew to Salt Lake City for a meeting at the airport with a potential investor, but alas it came to nothing, as Matech's business was just too risky to invest in....long story. So Ray and Mitch said ok let's go watch the racing at Miller Motorsports, and as if by magic a rental car appears and off we went. After a couple of hours, Ray says 'ok what do you want to do next?' Mitch>'How about a show in Vegas?' Ray>'Great idea...Mitch make some phone calls please'
This was all happening at Ray's usual 200 mph full of enthusiasm and I got swept along in the excitement. I had no idea how far away Vegas was, or how long it would take...but off we went. Longest limo in the world took us swiftly out the gates to the Bellagio, and into Cirque du Soleil 'O', best seats in the house, of course. Afterwards, Ray handed me some dollars and said go play some roulette. It was a blur of excitement and adrenaline. Everything lost, and he never stopped smiling his big smile. Dinner then back to the airport to fly home. Martin then returned to Switzerland, while I remained working on various presentation and business plans to see a way forward for Matech. Ray had me over for Kobe beef on his BBQ, taught me how to play Texas hold'em with his family and friends, took me shooting at the range, a evening of teppanyaki, and with Mitch, his wife Kathy, and Janna showed me the most amazing few days. Ray then took me to work with him behind the scenes at the Commemorative Air Force, loading up explosives and bags of diesel fuel for the staged explosions in the flying displays, then to stay in field and photograph. Everybody loved Ray, and he seemed to love everybody back.
Clearly, for me it's an experience I will never, ever forget. It has been an honour and a privilege to have spent even just a short time with Ray and his lovely family.
Below is a photo taken at the Bellagio when we saw 'O'. Happy memories of the time, but very sad now that two of my friends are no longer here.
God speed Ray, and may you Rest in Peace. All my love and thoughts to your family.
Steven.